The Thought Matrix of a Dominatrix #1

12 09 2007

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If getting a spanking could heal the world, I would still be wielding a flesh eating whip.

The words Corporate Punishment are like braces for a unsteady bird flying against the wind.

When I talk about domination I underline it all and label it as if it were fiction.

Let’s Start with the Contract between a slave and the Mistress.

A Contract is a list of terms to set boundaries, safe words and expectations of the dominatrix.

Depending on the attitude of the dungeon they may or may not suggest a contract. Most slaves were on their lunch breaks and didn’t want to waste time reading when I was # 3 of the Five Deadly Venoms. Everyone’s name was John or Bill so the signatures were worthless.

In a dungeon with Gumba looking security- Cash and a first name was sufficient. The idea of a contract, in this case was to show that as a Mistress, you could be trusted not to go crazy.When I went crazy it was because it was what was outlined.

Contracts work best for two people who plan to play together for a period of time. The word contract doesn’t suggest that the slave will be coming back for more. It is just an agreement for that session. The next time you see the sub he may have something totally different on his mind.

In retrospect, spanking for profit isn’t any easier than spanking for love.

Sometimes in love it is more difficult to get a submissive to admit expectations. Reading body language doesn’t cut it as far as being comfortly uncomfortable.

Safe words are extremely necessary when playing nice.

Remember when playing with someone for the first time (that you have been with for a while before) Contracts are even more important.

I say this because a session gone bad can end a relationship and leave people feeling really bad.

Sometimes just reading other peoples ideas of contracts curled up together is enough to spark a little fun in the relationship. Reading the erotica to each other is super fun.

Safe words are warning bells that enlighten the Mistress on how well you are absorbing the designed punishment.

Green is Universal Go

Yellow Yield

Red Stop.

1, 2, 3 Simple. Some people like to get flowery and use pretty words but that can get complicated if you play with more than one person. SLUTS!

So Ladies who want to role play as dominatrix read all the material you can find under Dominatrix Contracts. If you have trouble the line is open between 1- 3 am . rates apply 2.99 per minute. You must be 18 years old.


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